HAPPY HALLOWEEN FROM CAP!

It's one of our favorite holidays here at Children Awaiting Parents (okay, I'm not sure that this is true for everyone but it's one of my favorite holidays here) and this year was no exception! With everyone in the office working towards becoming an agency and settling into new roles, we almost forgot but lucky for you, a few of us still celebrated. Happy Halloween!

Click here for last year's photos!

Melanie, Ilona & Kate

CONGRATULATIONS LACY!

Congratulations to Lacy, and her parents, Jim and Dorothea! The family finalized their adoption last week and as you can see, there were smiles all around. We are so happy we were invited to share in this very special moment.

Congratulations!

Lacy signing her adoption paperwork.

Lacy at the finalization.

Jim, Dorothea, Judge Kohout & Lacy.

LOVE A KID!

Lacy and I hanging out

 
So a while back, we had a pilot program with a local agency, to certify families and help them find waiting children. One of our families was matched with a young girl in Nevada and the other day, I had the pleasure of meeting little miss Lacy. She was adorable and sweet and I'm so happy for the family. The adoption will finalize in a few weeks and our office couldn't be happier.

As for me - I got a sweet Lacy original on my dry erase board...yay for awesome kids!

UPSTATE NY SUPPORT GROUP FOR WAITING CHILDREN IN FOSTER CARE

 

Photo courtesy of http://www.yoffetherapy.com

 

Children Awaiting Parents will be hosting a 12 week support group for children and teens that are freed for adoption in foster care. Children Awaiting Parents is inviting caseworkers to refer any children between the ages of 12-21 who might benefit from this group.  Based on the level of interest, we hope to have one group located in Rochester, NY and one in Syracuse, NY. The groups will be open to anyone who is able to be transported to these locations. 

The purpose of the waiting child support group is to prepare foster children for adoption while developing supportive relationships with other waiting peers. The group will address the hurt and loss in the children’s past that has resulted from languishing in the foster care system and provide lifelong tools and resources to help them cope. Friendships and trusting relationships among the support group will be encouraged through a discussion of adoption topics, and team building activities. The goal is to improve the youth’s ability to form connections with a pre-adoptive family and begin to better understand their feelings about their past. 

 

The group will allow children to understand that what they are feeling is common, they are not alone, and they are able to talk about their feelings in a safe environment. The children will have the opportunity to discuss topics including the process of adoption, birth families, foster parents, and aging out while learning to apply applicable CBT and DBT skills. Participating in the group is voluntary. Children can be at varying levels of adoption preparedness and have mixed or unclear feelings about adoption.

The waiting child support group will be run by Kristy Aquilla and Melanie Schmidt. If you have any questions or for a copy of the child referral form, please feel free to contact them at (585) 232-5110.

INTERNSHIP OPPORTUNITY FROM VOICE FOR ADOPTION

Are you a student interested in learning about non-profit work, advocacy strategies, public policy, and child welfare adoption issues? As an intern you will have the opportunity to work in a unique non-profit environment, gain invaluable knowledge and experience and work on meaningful projects that will help raise awareness about children in foster care who are waiting to be adopted. Interns will have an opportunity to attend relevant policy briefings and conference calls.

Click here for more information

TWENTY-EIGHT YEAR OLD MOM ADOPTS SEVENTEEN YEAR-OLD

Cris Beam became a mother at 28 years old.

At the time, her daughter was 17 years old.

Cris writes an excellent article in The New York Times, discussing her experience in becoming an adoptive parent to a teenager. She equates parenting a teenager to, "driving a race car on a slick track with no brakes" and recognizes that, "you just have to hold on through the curves."

Click here to read Beam's article.

Photo courtesy of The New York Times

MEET KRISTY!

Today's guest blogger is our awesome new intern, Kristy Aquila. Kristy has been training with Melanie Schmidt, our Wendy's Wonderful Kids Recruiter, to work directly with our kids to find them permanent loving homes.

Kristy and her fiance, Dan

My name is Kristy Aquila and I am the Wendy’s Wonderful Kids recruiter at Children Awaiting Parents. As a WWK recruiter intern I am not only responsible for finding families for children, but I also write assessments for the children that will highlight some of their traits that may have been forgotten or overlooked by all the negative things that have been reported. While meeting with the kids once a month I try and discuss with them what adoption means for them and how they feel about being adopted and entering a new home.   

I am not adopted myself and I do not have any adopted children of my own, but I discovered Children AwaitingParents through my graduate program. I knew I wanted to find an internship in adoption where I would be bringing families together but I did not know what would be available in Rochester. After researching adoption in the Rochester area I was blown away by the work Children Awaiting Parents has done! After meeting with Melanie and Mark it was clear that the staff was very passionate about the work they were doing and I became eager to join the team!

I am in my second year of the MSW program at Roberts Wesleyan College. In graduate school I am in the Child and Family concentration. Working with children has always been a passion of mine!  Before returning to graduate school, I worked at Hillside as a Youth Care Professional. I loved working with the kids and developing strong connections with them.  I felt I was making a difference just by being a support to them through all their ups and downs. However, I wanted to make more of a difference in these children’s lives. This was when I decided to go back to school for Social Work. 

In my personal life I recently just got engaged to a wonderful man as of 1 month ago! I have no pets of my own but I often look after my parents newly adopted puppy! I am looking forward to one day loving and spoiling a young lab/husky puppy of my own!